9 Tips and Tricks to woo a man
Some argue that it’s not lady-like to woo a guy but trust me, there are men you will certainly not allow him to slip your hand. It’s true that men can be very hard to read. It’s important to avoid playing mind games, but if there’s a guy you’re eyeing, there are ways to catch his attention.
These 9 tips and tricks will help grab the attention of the guy you’ve been eyeing.
1. Kindness
A study by David M. Buss from the University of Texas at Austin, it was found that kindness was one of the traits most desired in a mate by both men and women. Here’s what the study said:
“Kindness is linked with a cooperative disposition, interest in long-term relationships, ability to form social alliances, and empathy in rearing children.”
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So even if you aren’t looking for long-term or having kids with a guy, know that kindness can go a long way. In order to be kind to attract the right man, express interest in him, always treat him with respect and do some little favours for him.
2. Self worth
If you want to know how to attract men, know your worth and own it. There’s a lot of confusion about what confidence in dating looks like. Confidence doesn’t mean walk up to every guy you’re drawn to, you ask him out, and you initiate the first k!$$. This is what I consider masculine confidence, and while there’s nothing wrong with it, I want you to work on creating feminine confidence. Sëxy Confidence.
What does that look like? It means knowing that you deserve a relationship, and being proud of what you bring to the table.
3. Smile
This is one of the easiest ways to improve your appearance and succeed in how to attract men. It’s like an instant upgrade. Smalking: smiling while talking is a key way to attract and engage a man. Some people have trouble with this but it’s something you can practice any time you’re talking and you’ll get better at smalking.
It’s amazing how well men perceive you when you smile more. Smiling indicates happiness and ease. Just put more smiles on your dating game.
4. Vibe
Giving off good vibes makes you more appealing to men.
Have you ever met someone and within three seconds of meeting them, you thought, “Yikes, I’m not interested.”
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But then with other people, you meet them and immediately think, “Wow, I like this person. He’s great.”
What that comes down to is your body language. Your vibe. The energy you bring to the table. When you’re energetic and charismatic, you can’t help but draw people to you.The next time you go out, pay attention to other people’s vibes to see what draws people to them. Take notes!
If it comes naturally, be the life of the party. Own the room. If you exude confidence, you’ll attract men.
5. Honesty
Research finds that people who are considered honest come off as more fit, healthy, and kind. Just know that honesty is sëxy. Know that the right guy can handle your truth. If there’s something you’re uncomfortable talking about early on, let him know rather than lying. Ask him to be honest with you in return.
6. Positive Attitude
Put up a positive attitude at all times to reflect your confidence, smartness and innermost energy.
A positive attitude can be super attractive to men.
Men are attracted to pleasant, positive, and overall cheerful women.
7. Intelligence
Your most appealing asset to a man is your brain, that’s your intelligence. Smart, confident guys are attracted to smart, confident women.
On the other hand, dumb, insecure men are intimidated by smart women. Don’t dumb yourself down. Don’t brag about your intelligence. Don’t belittle him or anyone else. At the same time, don’t be afraid to show your intellectual side. The right man will be thrilled by your intelligence or brain.
8. Act seductively
Up until now, we’ve focused on how to attract men through personality traits, but it would be a great disservice not to talk about that physical attraction as well.
A woman’s figure obviously plays a large role in attraction. Whether you have hour-glass shape or not, learn how to woo a man with your body and eye contacts.
The important thing is when it comes to being physically appealing to the opposite sëx is being confident in what your body looks like.
9. Interest
Showing interest can build attraction and you can express your interest in a man by paying attention to him, talking to him, making him that he is worth your time, support and pray for his growth.
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He will get excited and bring his ‘A’ game on. On the other hand, if you don’t exhibit your interest, he will assume that you’re not interested and he will move on.
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